Okay, let's break the serious ice here, everyone.
This is stemming off from the thread "Removing a few inactive members from the thread?" I wanted to respond there, but unfortunately, Zey pulled a me before I could respond. So, I'm posting it here.
First thing first, everyone responding to Darkrai (okay, except for the few. You know who you are). Ya'll are being really rude to Darkrai. Even the constructive criticisms I see can come off as harsh and a bit offensive. People here are throwing insults at Darkrai, not just saying how he can improve.
"No one wants you in the team, Darkrai." -GeoDash Tomorrow
"You are rude, annoying, and frankly bad at decorating, despite saying 'I'm good at deco'." -Hollow
"Frankly, you are a big jerk" -Darkrai -> "and you're a bigger one" -Bfdi
" you would see how possibly everyone doesn't want to forgive you to how rude and stubborn you are." -LuisLuigi
Yes, some of them are constructive, and quite mild compared to what I've seen before, but those comments still present themselves as harsh and offensive. Don't you think there's a better way to say things? Don't counter bad with bad.
Next, Darkrai. Past the tone of everyone, they have a point: you have not proven yourself to be able to contribute well to the team. What you have done is constantly annoy others, hoping that they would all forget it and move on. Unfortunately, as human beings, many of us are not like that. I have personally seen your actions on the server, and frankly, they do have a point. Plus, they're not the only rude people. Your response to many of these people just prove their point.
I am one of those people who are completely willing to give you chances until you somehow reform. I'm (mostly) a patient person. I still do want to give you another chance. I continued to believe in KingDavid, and eventually, he pretty much took a heel-face turn and became much better than before. However, like KingDavid, you need to learn how to respond more nicely. We HAVE given you chance after chance, but each time, you have not reformed. If you want to prove that you have changed, show it. Show everyone here that they were wrong to assume you at most times. But most of all, accept insults and harsh criticisms. They will always come from everywhere. It's a matter of showing how you respond: will you be the person who bitterly shouts out at his attackers, or the person who shows hatred with love?
I would like to end with this quote: "To be good, you must forgive not only seven times, but seven times seven!" -Jesus, The Bible.
Thanks all.
-Scientedfic
(Jeezes, that took like 30 minutes to write)